One Word: Epic.

One Word: Epic.

It might be Thursday, but I’m still catching my breath from this weekend.
This is a long one, but I promise it’s worth it if you stick around til the end.
You all remember my friend Amber, right?  The one with the heart of gold who loved me when I wasn’t very lovable?  Well, our roles have reversed some.  Her boyfriend is gearing up for a long deployment, and that means a lot of his time is spent in training.  He’s away.  A lot.

So when my sister-in-law Dannie (Amber’s BFF) called and said that Devin was sending Amber to Charlotte for a girls’ weekend because he was going to be out training in the middle of the ocean, I didn’t think anything of it.  He’s the kind of guy to do that sort of thing.  The only thing is, Amber wasn’t allowed to know.  When she finally found out that a plane ticket had been bought–the questioning started.

The thing is, homegirl was flying across the country.  There’s very little that would actually stop me from seeing her, and she knows that.  So I had to lie.  I had to lie my pants off.  I told her J and I would be in GA for the weekend.  Meanwhile, I booked a train ticket and off I went!

I was the first to arrive at the hotel (thanks, Uber for getting me everywhere quickly and safely).  And oooooooh my was it swanky!  Devin booked us at the Omni Hotel in uptown Charlotte.  Upon arrival, my friendly Uber driver let me know that it was Taste Of Charlotte!  The entire event was set up just outside our hotel doors!

The surprises kept coming.  Once I got into the room, a woman came and set up The Romance Package.  Devin had us hooked up to the max!  I couldn’t wait for my sister (dropping the in law) to arrive and later, Amber!

Amber wasn’t getting in until close to midnight, so Dannie and I hit the streets for Taste!  It’s so rare that she and I get any actual sister time–so we were soaking it up!  Both exhausted, we decided to take our food up to the hotel room where we could watch (and hear) the concert happening just outside!  Finally, it was time to head to the airport!

This might be one of my favorite memories right here.  We of course got there stupid early (we factored in the non-existent traffic).  So Dannie and I circled the airport like 7 times.  On the last go round we decided I should hide.  So I climbed into the back seat and hid underneath a pile of coats.  When Amber arrived, Dannie jumped out, helped her with her bags and then the two girls got back in the car.

As we started to pull away, I popped up out of the back seat and asked “can y’all turn up the radio?”  Amber squealed and jumped backwards towards the door!  She had to take a double take and then the excitement settled in!  It was so much fun!

If y’all have hung around here a while, you know my husband took his dear sweet time proposing to me.  Amber was in that phase of “I know it’s happening but when?”  And because of that, every little thing has her mind turning.  I didn’t want the weekend to go by with her disappointed, so I just made sure to tell her that the weekend wasn’t about that.  Devin just wanted to do something nice for her–he wasn’t there (before you all think I’m a lying little snot…I had NO IDEA about anything. I just figured if it WAS happening, I’d know).  No sooner were the words out of my mouth when her phone rang.  It was Devin, and she could hardly hear him.  When she hung up, you could see her deflation.  He’s really not here she said.  I could hear the boat.


Well.  At least the disappointment was out of the way and we could move on.  I didn’t know exactly what we were doing for the weekend, but I knew Devin had some tricks up his sleeve.  He was sending perfectly timed emails to Amber’s phone with riddles (he did the same for her birthday).

Saturday morning was brunch.  But not before we surprised Amber again!  While she was in the shower, her twin sister arrived!  Brunch was amazing.  Just as we ate our last bite, another email came in with more instructions.  We had some free time before a driver would pick us up and take us to a vineyard!!

Dannie’s picture

Since we had some time we found a nail salon.  Amber just kept asking is this my life right now?  Devin is sure to always spoil her to death, and it’s exactly what she deserves.

Later, the driver arrives (there’s a story there in and of itself, but this post will be a million years long if I get into that now), and an hour and a half later, we arrived at the Vineyard!  It was absolutely gorgeous!

We check in.  Turns out we’re not just having a normal wine tasting.  We’re having a wine tasting in the gorgeous gazebo out in the middle of the vines overlooking the sunset (how many bonus points are we up to now for Devin?  I’ve lost count)!

Not to discredit the wine, which was amazing, but we couldn’t get over the view or the fact that all of this was for us!  From the beginning, Amber was fretting about seeing her family.  They live about an hour an a half from Charlotte.  She knew she couldn’t fly clear across the country and not see them.  We just kept telling her not to worry about it (little did she know Devin had that all worked out too)!

In the middle of our tasting, a golf cart arrives.  All Amber hears is Aunt Amber?  Her little nephew comes running towards her followed by the rest of her family.  She just broke down.

We were all having so much fun visiting with each other, she almost didn’t notice when another golf cart arrived a little while later.  On it were Devin’s parents….

and Devin. Remember now, he’s supposed to be in the middle of the ocean across the country!  Are you crying yet?



He hops off the cart, gathers Amber into his arms, then drops to one knee.

Amber’s picture taken by Dannie


I know I can speak for everyone involved when I say our gratitude towards Devin for including us all in this special surprise is immeasurable.
I also can say, without a doubt, that she was incredibly surprised!
Honorable mentions: my sweet SIL for being such a lying little snot and pulling this weekend off (love you!)!
Congratulations Amber & Devin!!!
Birthday Mani!

Birthday Mani!

What else screams BIRTHDAY like rainbows and glitter?
Yeah, nothing.  That’s what!
Today isn’t my birthday.
But Sunday is!
And you know I won’t be hangin’ around these parts over the weekend!

Sonya Kashuk: Jammin’
Finger Paints: Paper Mache
Kiss Silver striper 
Pure Ice Beware
SK Jammin, SH Mellow Yellow, SH Blue Me Away, Sinful Colors Amethyst
Make up sponge

An Invasion. A Birthday. And A Move.

>> Our whole house is hardwoods.  Which means with this stupid boot on, I sound like Peg Leg Steve.  J has started referring to me as booty.  The other night when I walked into the living room he goes booty booty booty booty walkin’ everywhere.   Yeah.

>>Wednesday morning we woke up to what sounded like an invasion on our house.  Nope.  Just the lawn maintenance people and our back door neighbor sawing down trees.

>> My birthday is on Sunday.  I probably should have written this on Wednesday and linked it up with Kathy as a confession–but somehow I ended up confused and thought I was turning 29.  I’m not sure where the mistake happened–but I’ve been thinking this for the last 6 months.  My husband realized my error and was like “uhm, no.  You’re turning 28.”  I feel the opposite of Pheobe.  I get a whole year of my life back.

>> J is trying to teach me stick shift.  With my boot on.  Surprisingly, that doesn’t really affect it (at least I don’t think it does).  We were in an empty lot on Monday driving around.  I’m not sure I’m coordinated enough.  Actually, I’m pretty sure I’m not.

>> This one needs a little back story.  We live in a house offered by the university.  Another football coach lives in another house offered by the university.  Well, that coach and his family are in the process of moving.  The university decided to repurpose the house they were living in–and he didn’t have much notice.  The school is doing what they can to take care of them, but in my opinion it sounds kind of like a nightmare.

My phone rings on Wednesday morning.  It was a local number I didn’t recognize.  I missed the call and called it right back.  It went to the voicemail of someone in residence life for the university.  Immediately, my heart jumped into my throat.  I called J thinking surely they would only call me if they couldn’t get ahold of him.  He said he’d take care of it.

Later that afternoon, J calls me from work.  Says he heard back and that we had to be out of the house by the end of the month.  


I just sat there on the other end of the line silent.  My whole body went numb.  If you’re new here, there was a bit of drama with settling into this house on my end.  But now that we’re here, I’m happy.  I’m comfortable.  This house works for us.

I swear in the moments it finally took for J to say just kidding I was trying my hardest not to break down.  That little jerk.

Turns out a package was just delivered to the Res Life office instead of our PO Box for some reason.  I’m still trying to catch my breath.

May Favorites!

May Favorites!

Remember when I used to make youtube videos?  Yeah, that was fun.  I set most of them to private because….well, I’m really awkward.  I enjoyed it, though.  And maybe when I get a new computer and it doesn’t take me seven hours to edit a 5 minute video, I’ll get back into it.

But since I stopped making videos, I stopped sharing with you guys all my favorite things each month.  And I’m putting a stop to that now.  I had a lot of things that I just kept reaching or in May, and I think they’re worth mentioning!

1. Coconut Oil: Okay, before you roll your eyes because you’ve seen people ranting and raving about this for almost a year–hear me out.  Yes, I use this as my makeup remover and my only facial moisturizer.  And I love it.  But I’m about to confess something a little…uhm…embarrassing.  It doesn’t matter what deodorant I use–I could buy the most expensive, clinical strength stuff on the market…and it still won’t last.  Knowing that CO is antibacterial and antifungal, I figured I’d try something.  If it worked, cool.  If not, no one would ever have to know.  So I rub just a tiny little bit into each armpit (oh gosh, I can’t believe I’m admitting this) and let it soak in for a minute before I apply my normal deodorant.  And you know what?  It works.


2. Nivea: Kiss of Mint & Minerals: By far my favorite lip balm.  I’ve almost used this entire tube up and I have a back up.

3. Johnson & Johnson Melt Away Stress Lavender Hand Cream: I’ve used this for years and years and honestly just rediscovered it.  The scent is amazing and the cream leaves your hands so so soft.  I’m kind of addicted to hand cream, and this is by far my favorite one.

4. Tresemme Dry Shampoo:  STOP!  And make sure you listen here.  As a dry shampoo I hate this.  I have fine hair and it leaves my hair feeling dirtier than it did before I started.  Wait, what?  I thought this was a list of favorites.  It is.  I do not use this as a dry shampoo.  But I have very slick, fine hair.  So when I curl my hair, everything sort of just melts together creating one giant curl.  That’s where this baby comes in.  It adds just enough grip and texture to my hair to allow the style to fall how I want it to!  Plus, it doesn’t smell awful.  But if you have fine hair like me, I wouldn’t at all recommend this as an actual dry shampoo.  You’re better off with Batiste!

5. Monistat Chafing Gel: Again, I don’t use this how it’s intended.  I’ve mentioned it before–but I actually use this as my make up primer.  I know, weird.  As the summer months settle in, I love this stuff even more.  It keeps my make up in place all day and helps combat oil.  And it’s like $5 at walmart.  The ingredients are the exact same as the Smashbox photo finish primer.  This isn’t new information–but it might be to you.  So I recommend it.

6. OPI Strawberry Margarita:  Worth the $88 I spent for it.  I change my nail polish a lot.  That’s not news.  But I keep reaching for this.

7. Covergirl Shimmering Sands: This is an old favorite.  Perfect for an easy and quick eye look.

8. Jergins Natural Glow & The Express formula: Being the 5th kid means they ran out of pigment by time they got to me.  I’m the whitest of the bunch.  But I also don’t crave the sunshine like I used to.  Both of these work great.  The Express has that DHA sunless tanner scent right off the bat (and works pretty quickly as far as seeing color).  The Natural Glow smells nice right away, but then develops the DHA scent.  Both leave your skin feeling extra soft!  Also, I’m not orange or streaky.  So there’s a plus.

9. Vaseline Rose Lip Balm: I’ll admit I only bought this because it was cute.  And I didn’t love it right away.  I like a balm with a little tingle in it–but aside from smelling pretty, it didn’t really do anything for me.  Well, then we went to Pittsburgh and nothing was relieving my chapped lips.  Oh, holy cow they hurt so bad.  Finally, as a last resort I tried this.  Instant relief.  It’s a thicker formula so it actually sticks around on your lips for a good long while too.

10. Water Water Water: This is a stupid favorite, but I had to mention it.  As someone who always hated water, I can’t believe I’m even including this.  But I can’t get enough.  I only drink water and coffee (one cup/ day) now.  I feel better, my skin looks better, I’m not nearly as tired and being outside in the heat doesn’t kill me.  It’s the easiest (and cheapest!) thing we can do to take care of ourselves.

What are your May Favorites?  Let me know if you love any of these things too!  Do you use any weird products the way they aren’t intended?  I want to know!

You’re My Favorite Friend, Friday!

You’re My Favorite Friend, Friday!

Finger Paints: A Grape Catch & Paper Mache’
OPI: La Paz-itively Hot!
Kiss Nail Art Striping Polish 
I know this won’t go live until the morning, but I’m writing this on Friday night.  At 8:30PM.  And I have so much work ahead of me yet that I’m pretttttttty sure I’m going to be pulling something that resembles an all nighter.  So if you don’t hear from me until mid-day tomorrow (today), then you’ll know why!  
I’m also linking up with Amanda for the first time–so here we go!
Favorite Song:

Favorite Spotify Playlist:
>>Your Favorite Coffeehouse–Seriously.  It’s good writing music for me!  And it helps me relax!

Favorite Quotes:

Favorite Funnies: 
I mean, what is going on!?!
It’s probably wrong how hard I laughed at that.

I laughed so hard at this that I couldn’t breathe.  I then shared it with my husband who just stared at me like I was an idiot.  Whatever.  That’s funny.

Happy Friday, friends.  Hope you have lovely weekends.  I’ll hopefully be sending the manuscript back to the copy editor this evening.

Linked with: The Nail Files
**all photo credits are clickable links through the photograph.