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Hi, I´m Joey

It’s my hope that this website, which I founded in 2009, will become a regular source of inspiration, encouragement and comfort for you. We’re old friends here, and I’ve got stories to tell (and things to share). So grab a cuppa (or a glass) and stay a while.

While blogging is how I started my out-loud writing career, my debut novel, Yeah, maybe was released in 2014 and became an amazon bestseller. See more novels from me under “books.” 

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The messy middle

The messy middle

When I was a kid, every so often my mom would come up the stairs and leave a box of black trash bags outside my door; the subtle indicator that it was time to do a deep clean. I hated the process but always loved the results, so after a few deep breaths, I'd dive in....

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When A Marriage Ends: Was It All A Lie?

julep sonia *Disclaimer I'm having a hard time understanding how some things work out.  I'd like to think I'm a pretty good judge of character.  And call me naive, but once I like your character, I trust you.  It's gotten me hurt a time or two, but it's usually worth it in the end.  I've found...

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It’s the same, just stripped down a little.

The holidays are always a good time to do a check in.  I used to joke that I just wanted to put my Christmas tree up in the same house twice.  Well, 22 days before Christmas last year, we found out we'd be leaving Buies Creek eventually. But alas, my tree went up.  So far, the only...

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Friday Favorites: Some Snippets of Life!

Friday Favorites: Some Snippets of Life!

I literally have Christmas music blaring so loudly at this exact moment because the fire alarm is blaring at the apartment complex behind us.  So thank you, Sarah Mclachlan for your powerful voice that isn't making me feel guilty about sad, abused dogs for once in your life. Speaking of...

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How to Master the No Makeup Makeup Look!

How to Master the No Makeup Makeup Look!

I've been watching some TV lately.  Nothing out of control (because really, when do I have the time), but a little OTH and Jane the Virgin here and there.  And I've noticed something.  The characters I find the prettiest aren't really all that made up. Okay, yes.  I know they...

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HI, I'M JOEY

 Mama, indie author, wife, believer and friend.

My only hope is that while you’re here, you feel a sense of belonging, comfort and empowerment. Because life is too short to live it worried you’re not good enough.

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YOU SHOULD READ MY BOOKS

For the deep feeler, the over-thinker & the one who’s trying to figure out where they fit.

I write for the ones who feel like they’re too much and not enough all at the same time. For the ones navigating big questions about identity, self-worth, relationships, and those in-between life moments no one really prepares you for.

My stories offer a mix of comfort and catharsis—like a late-night journal entry or a favorite nostalgic playlist. If you love Taylor Swift lyrics, soft heartbreak, and hopeful endings, you just might find a piece of yourself in these pages.