Comments on: Moving.

By: Kristen @ See You In A Porridge

Kristen @ See You In A Porridge — Sun, 28 Jun 2015 06:43:45 +0000

i am so sorry to hear about your best friend. i have thoughts and whatnot on friendships and you're right, there really is no way to talk about them without sounding petty. but it really can be so hard to drift apart from certain people. i'm sorry you are dealing with it! hope the dreams settle down soon, they sound horrible 🙁

By: Julia

Julia — Wed, 24 Jun 2015 07:03:35 +0000

Moving on from close friendships is so hard! It's crazy to think that someone you were so close with is just not in your life anymore, but it happens, unfortunately. I have a friend who I've known all my life and we are still friends thankfully but the dynamic is different as we have become adults and our lives have gone in different directions.

By: Joey

Joey — Wed, 24 Jun 2015 05:41:11 +0000

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By: Myra

Myra — Wed, 24 Jun 2015 05:35:04 +0000

I'm glad you finally came to the realization that I am your best friend and that will stay until the end of time. You'll never be getting rid of me. EVER. Lol. I hope the dreams calm down soon, friend, and that you're able to get some serious rest! Love you.

By: Rachel @ A Nesting Nomad

Rachel @ A Nesting Nomad — Wed, 24 Jun 2015 00:22:54 +0000

I'm sorry these dreams are so intrusive for you. I'm sure your subconscious will catch up with everything that's happened soon enough, but I hope you can manage some good sleep in the meanwhile. Also I too know about the friends thing – it's really rough, but I'm trying to be more zen about those friendships that drift. By the looks of things, it happens to everyone!

By: Esther Davison

Esther Davison — Tue, 23 Jun 2015 21:12:40 +0000

Funny that you mention 5 years. For a 5 year stint in our marriage, we moved 5 times: Colorado, Hawaii, Alaska, Hawaii and back home to Oregon. We moved twice while we were in Colorado and twice while we were in Alaska. So I understand moving is stressful and expensive. It would appear that you're processing more than just your recent moves. I pray that goes smoothly for you and perhaps the moving dreams can end. Hopefully your dreams can be nicer to you too. Estherdavison@gmail.com

By: Nadine Lynn

Nadine Lynn — Tue, 23 Jun 2015 19:30:48 +0000

Isn't it strange what our dreams can sometimes tell us about ourselves?? I know that you are going to find that balance that you need. And I know that we have talked about not being friends with someone anymore and how hard it is, but it is something that, in my experience, I haven't gotten over completely. It still makes me sad when I think about it…and I believe it is one of the hardest "break ups" to go through.

PS – That damn little video that plays at the bottom of your blog really makes commenting hard!!! It keeps shooting me down there and I have to keep pausing it and scrolling back up.

By: Claire | Fashion + Feathers

Claire | Fashion + Feathers — Tue, 23 Jun 2015 17:57:22 +0000

When I read the title, I was thinking, "NO WAY." I know how much you love your apartment and Charlotte life right now so I'm really glad to read that that's not the case. Here's to hoping everything gets settled. xoxo

By: thatwasnttheplan

thatwasnttheplan — Tue, 23 Jun 2015 17:09:53 +0000

It's funny, over the past year I've really adopted the "Reason. Season. Lifetime." philosophy. Some friends we have for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime. I thought a friend filled the lifetime role, and I have no clue how the friendship dissolved, but it just did. It kind of bothers me, yet I feel a peace about it. If I really think about the friendship, we were both in similar seasons of life so it was an easy friendship, but as we both moved on from that season, our conversations and free time to hang out, became less and less. However, the experiences and memories of the friendship are still great!