Comments on: Lost in the Mess

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By: Carmen Varner

Carmen Varner — Tue, 12 May 2015 06:12:24 +0000

Life is a struggle. I think we have to constantly be learning to move forward. Sometimes in relationships you have to do what's best for the other person, not what you think is best or what you want to do. It's messy but we just gotta learn. :]

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By: Amanda - Voyage of the MeeMee

Amanda - Voyage of the MeeMee — Tue, 12 May 2015 03:31:31 +0000

I think I have the opposite problem… I say no to everyone lol I've even told my BOSS no! lol

By: Monica L

Monica L — Mon, 11 May 2015 23:06:16 +0000

I went through a thought process similar to this about a year ago…oddly enough around my 29th birthday too. I think as long as you are happy with the amount of "appeasing" you are doing then that is all that matters. I used to say that I only do things I want but I realized that is not true and stopped. It was hard for a lot of people to deal with but in the end it was healthier for me. I still do things occasionally that I may not necessarily want to for myself but I am happy with the amount. Good luck figuring it out 🙂

By: Tiffany {A Touch of Grace}

Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} — Mon, 11 May 2015 23:06:00 +0000

I think this is something we never really quite master. Even when we're old we'll sometimes continue the cycle. Or at least that's what I'm assuming. But if you figure it out girl let us all know!

By: Kim @ Kimberleys Quests

Kim @ Kimberleys Quests — Mon, 11 May 2015 21:38:19 +0000

Oh how I know this struggle. It's so hard being an "adult" (which is a whole different scary thought) and feeling like you've got so much of your life together, yet having someone just completely undo all of that work- or take the enjoyment out of life (even temporarily). I know that feeling very well and it's exhausting!! Appease the mess indeed. 🙂

By: Nadine Lynn

Nadine Lynn — Mon, 11 May 2015 20:14:11 +0000

I still find myself just going along with something that I don't agree with because it is easier than trying to say no or suggesting something different. Why is that?!?! And ummmmm I want you to paint my nails!! Haha 🙂

By: Lauren

Lauren — Mon, 11 May 2015 19:52:49 +0000

I like how you referred to it as a mess. Your mess isn't necessarily my mess, and so on, but we all have our crap that we would rather hide than deal with, in both a literal and figurative sense. I was lately empowered to say no at work. It sounds so simple, but it has been awesome. Knowing that I won't get "in trouble" (I hate that phrase. I'm not a child!) for not jumping and running to everyone's whims has been so freeing and has allowed me to focus more on what I'm supposed to be doing. If that empowerment is what you need, I hope you get it, because it's awesome to not have to appease everyone all the time!

By: carissajade

carissajade — Mon, 11 May 2015 19:14:43 +0000

Love this. I worry it's something we might not ever completely figure out. We just keep getting a little bit better with each experience.

By: Jen

Jen — Mon, 11 May 2015 18:46:55 +0000

Yes if you figure it out please share! 🙂