https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-fluff-that-distracts Fri, 10 Feb 2017 16:06:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2825 Fri, 30 May 2014 02:38:54 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2825 I think there's a lot to be said for it being just the two of you. When you just have each other to depend on, you learn a lot! We all have our rough patches and our moments of "This will nevereverever work". Usually it all evens out.

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2824 Fri, 30 May 2014 02:37:11 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2824 Living together can DEFINITELY be an adjustment, that's for SURE!

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2823 Thu, 29 May 2014 19:12:42 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2823 I love hearing more about your story! It sounds like you had a lot of transitions in a short time, but you were able to work through them together and find what works best for both of you!

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2822 Thu, 29 May 2014 18:48:22 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2822 I do love a love story with a happy ending!!! The first few years of marriage are hard as you try to adjust to each other and realize that it isn't all about you anymore. I think that if you can survive the first few…that you can survive the lifetime!

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2821 Thu, 29 May 2014 17:58:57 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2821 The first years of a marriage are hard I think…there's a lot of adjustments. When you make it to where you thrive, it's like heaven.

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2820 Thu, 29 May 2014 17:27:46 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2820 I think you have to give up what you think makes you happy in order to find what really makes you happy, if that makes any sense. I'm happier now than I have ever been but we both sacrificed for that, is Tyson as happy as I am? I can't say, he always says he's happy if I'm happy.

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2819 Thu, 29 May 2014 16:51:24 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2819 awww I love this story! So glad y'all are fighters and you know what's important to make it work. The crap sucks, but it's usually such a great growth experience.

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2818 Thu, 29 May 2014 16:26:45 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2818 Oh, this made my heart happy. Sometimes finding happiness is like peeling away all the layers (target, your charlotte home), and finding the one thing left (being with Hubs) is the most simple way to be happy. Does that make sense?

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2817 Thu, 29 May 2014 16:18:29 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2817 I love this post. It reminds me of my own with my husband; we had to fight tooth and nail the first few years to make it through all the bad stuff and I'm still amazed that we made it to the side okay. I like to say that because we saw each other at our worst early on, we knew it could only go up. I think a lot of people get married young and then end up divorced because they just aren't prepared for how much work marriage can truly be. I'm glad you guys fought through it and ended up in a good place.

]]> https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2816 Thu, 29 May 2014 14:48:34 +0000 https://www.joeyhodgeswrites.com/2014/05/29/the-fluff-that-distracts/#comment-2816 Glad you were able to find common ground and what works for you both!

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