Real Life: It’s Happening.

by | Sep 21, 2012 | Throwback | 8 comments

Hey guys.  Did you know I wrote a book?  No?  Are you new here?
Well, if you are new, I did write a book…while planning my wedding no less.
Ok, ok.  I kid.  I totally didn’t plan my wedding.  My mom did.  She has far more patience for that crap stuff than I do.
But I did write a book.  Two plus years ago.
It’s a young adult fiction novel.
It was surprisingly easy to write.
I didn’t have much of a plan except: write a novel.
And I was pretty pleased with how it turned out.
And then I got scared shitless.
What next?
So what happened?  The printed copy has been sitting, collecting dust.
I haven’t opened the digital copy recently.  Well, unless you count opening it to send to Mia.  She’s my bff, and even just doing that scared me.
Why are you so scared you might ask.
Fear may not be the right emotion to tag to this.
It’s more like intimidation.  I’m not scared of the rejection.  In fact, I’m more prepared for the rejection than I am for the acceptance.  I would probably keel over dead if an agent actually picked up my work. Never mind a publisher. 
The “next part” isn’t fun.  I have to write a query letter. 
And then I have to send it off to a bunch of agents who might maybe some day be sorta kinda interested in working with my genre.  And me.
And then I wait.
And wait.
And wait.
For the rejection.
For the approval.
Just wait.
When I write it out, it doesn’t seem all that intimidating at all, actually.
And lately, it keeps popping up: So what’s up with the book friends asks.
I want to get together and talk novel, let’s meet! Another suggests. 
And then… this happened:
I took notice.  Seems like such a scary thing until you realize that every author goes through this.
Every author experiences this part of it all.  Unless, of course, they choose to self publish.  That’s not for me.
So, I tweeted Ms. Jennifer Weiner to thank her. 
And you GUYS?  THIS HAPPENED:

She’s right.  Totally, totally right.
So I’m doing it.
Shit. Just. Got. Real.

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8 Comments

  1. O my gosh, I LOVE HER! that is priceless advice coming from her! Kudos to you for writing a book! It's always been something I've dreamed of too.. .

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  2. Mad props. New to Twitter but already in love with it because I constantly see female writers empowering and congratulating other female writers. So glad you got the final push you needed, especially from Jennifer Weiner!

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  3. That's awesome lady! JK Rowling had a hard time selling the first HP book too. It was originally listed as a children's book. Patience, patience, patience. Good luck!

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  4. That's seriously SO amazing and brave! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you girl!

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  5. eep!!! how exciting! good luck, girl!

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  6. Good luck to you! This process baffles me. I sent (only) ONE off once and haven't lost hope that they'll at least contact me and say "hey your book sounds lame, no thanks" but still no word. No news is good news? LOL

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  7. Girl you have to go for it! Shit what do you have to loose? Bet you it works out in your favor! Keep us posted I would love to read it!

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